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Oliver Buchannon
Troy Treleaven

Dale Carnegie trainer. 30+ years helping managers say what needs to be said.

The layoff conversation you're dreading

Aug 4, 2026

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1 min read

The layoff conversation you're dreading

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
Why the feedback sandwich persists despite being debunked

Jul 28, 2026

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1 min read

Why the feedback sandwich persists despite being debunked

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The feedback nobody gives their boss

Jul 21, 2026

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1 min read

The feedback nobody gives their boss

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The difference between a hard conversation and a difficult person

Jul 14, 2026

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1 min read

The difference between a hard conversation and a difficult person

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The part of hard conversations you can't learn from reading

Jul 7, 2026

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1 min read

The part of hard conversations you can't learn from reading

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The hard conversation isn't the meeting

Jun 30, 2026

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1 min read

The hard conversation isn't the meeting

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The tell you keep missing in hard conversations

Jun 23, 2026

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1 min read

The tell you keep missing in hard conversations

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The real reason people shut down mid-conversation

Jun 16, 2026

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1 min read

The real reason people shut down mid-conversation

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
Ready, or just amped up?

Jun 9, 2026

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1 min read

Ready, or just amped up?

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
Most leaders open a hard conversation with the wrong sentence

Jun 2, 2026

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1 min read

Most leaders open a hard conversation with the wrong sentence

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
What most leaders skip before a performance review

May 26, 2026

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2 min read

What most leaders skip before a performance review

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
You can't correct someone into changing

May 19, 2026

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2 min read

You can't correct someone into changing

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
The one question to ask yourself before any hard conversation

May 12, 2026

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1 min read

The one question to ask yourself before any hard conversation

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
"Rip off the bandaid" is bad advice. Here's what works instead.

May 5, 2026

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1 min read

"Rip off the bandaid" is bad advice. Here's what works instead.

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
Saying No to Your Boss Without Burning the Bridge

Apr 28, 2026

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2 min read

Saying No to Your Boss Without Burning the Bridge

How to say no to your boss — and keep the relationship intact.

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
Delivering Difficult Feedback: Say the Thing, Kindly

Apr 21, 2026

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2 min read

Delivering Difficult Feedback: Say the Thing, Kindly

How to deliver feedback that lands — without sugarcoating it, and without torching the relationship.

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven
Why Some Leaders Avoid Hard Conversations (And What the Best Ones Do Differently)

Apr 14, 2026

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5 min read

Why Some Leaders Avoid Hard Conversations (And What the Best Ones Do Differently)

The difference isn't courage. It's where you choose to look.

Troy Treleaven
Troy Treleaven

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